Tag: love

A couple of weeks ago, I helped an 89-year-old customer regain comfortable access to her computer.

Her granddaughter had recently used the PC, and afterward the screen looked completely different to her. The icons, colors, and overall appearance had changed enough that she no longer knew where anything was.

At first, everything looked normal to me. It was customized, but nothing appeared broken. Sitting beside her, I asked her to describe what the screen had looked like before.

After several questions and a little exploring, I switched the computer to dark mode.

“Yes! That’s it!” she said.

That one change made the computer feel familiar again.

We then reviewed the basics together: font sizes, display scaling, screen layout, and a few other settings that affected how comfortable the computer was for her to use.

Then I asked, “What else can I help you with?”

I immediately saw confusion and nervousness come over her. It was clear that the question was too broad. She did not have a prepared list of problems, and she was unsure how to explain what else might be difficult.

I may have learned more from that moment than she did.

My natural instinct is to be eager, solve problems, and check things off a list. But for someone who is already uncomfortable with technology, too many questions can feel overwhelming.

So I slowed down.

Instead of asking what else was wrong, I began asking smaller, gentler questions about how she used the computer. What did she enjoy doing? What seemed difficult? What worked well? What had changed?

The conversation moved slowly, one item at a time, and I let her lead the way.

She mentioned that a volunteer meeting she normally attended in person would be held through Microsoft Teams the following month. I installed Teams, confirmed that it was working, and walked her through the basic steps.

I explained that when the meeting invitation arrived, it would include a link. She could click the link and join the meeting without having to navigate through several unfamiliar screens.

A couple of weeks later, I received this note:

“Jay—Just want you to know how much I appreciate your patience with me as you checked out my computer and got it back to a ‘normal’ look for me! Thank you so much!

—Jane F.”

Her note meant a great deal to me.

What looks normal to one person may feel completely unfamiliar to another. A small change in color, layout, font size, or screen appearance can make a computer feel unusable—especially for someone who depends on familiarity and routine.

Helping with technology is not always about fixing something that is broken. Sometimes it is about listening carefully, slowing down, restoring confidence, and making the technology feel familiar again.

That is the kind of help I want HomeTechCare to provide.

Technology problems that seem minor to one person can be frustrating or intimidating to someone else. They can also be difficult for family members to diagnose and explain.

My goal is simple: to be patient, ask the right questions, and help people feel comfortable using the technology in their homes.